Neem het niet persoonlijk
Vaak nemen we, of liever gezegd, onze onzekere kinderen, dingen heel persoonlijk. Als iemand niet aardig is, denken we dat het aan ons ligt. Terwijl het meestal zo is, dat ‘de onaardigheid’ voorkomt uit de innerlijke spanning en pijn van de ander.
Het onzekere kind in ons is zeer bedreven in het vinden van allerlei aanwijzingen dat we niet goed zouden zijn. Steeds weer legt het de focus daar op.
Tenzij…je het gaat zien voor wat het is: namelijk je onzekere kind. En je dus ook heel bewust gaat kiezen om niet meer alles persoonlijk te nemen.
En dat scheelt een slok op een borrel!!
Wat een rust, wat een ruimte, het ligt niet aan jou…dus je hoeft ook niets te fixen, op te lossen. Je hoeft alleen maar bij de pijn, het ongemak te zijn dat een ander misschien even niet zo aardig is, en je daar van schrikt….zachtjes bij de pijn, de schrik zijn…en het zal verdampen…als het zeewater.
Probeer het maar eens uit…
Gary Zukav schrijft hier hele mooie boeken over. Bijvoorbeeld: "Het hart van de ziel & de intelligentie van de ziel"
maandag 23 mei 2011
vrijdag 6 mei 2011
Imagine a woman....
Imagine A Woman In Love With Herself
Imagine a woman who believes it is right and good she is a woman.
A woman who honors her experience and tells her stories.
Who refuses to carry the sins of others within her body and life.
Imagine a woman who trusts and respects herself.
A woman who listens to her needs and desires.
Who meets them with tenderness and grace.
Imagine a woman who acknowledges the past's influence on the present.
A woman who has walked through her past.
Who has healed into the present.
Imagine a woman who authors her own life.
A woman who exerts, initiates, and moves on her own behalf.
Who refuses to surrender except to her truest self and wisest voice.
Imagine a woman who names her own gods.
A woman who imagines the divine in her image and likeness.
Who designs a personal spirituality to inform her daily life.
Imagine a woman in love with her own body.
A woman who believes her body is enough, just as it is.
Who celebrates her body's rhythms and cycles as an exquisite resource.
Imagine a woman who honors the body of the Goddess in her changing body.
A woman who celebrates the accumulation of her years and her wisdom.
Who refuses to use her life-energy disguising the changes in her body and life.
Imagine a woman who values the women in her life.
A woman who sits in circles of women.
Who is reminded of the truth about herself when she forgets.
Imagine yourself as this woman.
By Patricia Lynn Reilly
Imagine a woman who believes it is right and good she is a woman.
A woman who honors her experience and tells her stories.
Who refuses to carry the sins of others within her body and life.
Imagine a woman who trusts and respects herself.
A woman who listens to her needs and desires.
Who meets them with tenderness and grace.
Imagine a woman who acknowledges the past's influence on the present.
A woman who has walked through her past.
Who has healed into the present.
Imagine a woman who authors her own life.
A woman who exerts, initiates, and moves on her own behalf.
Who refuses to surrender except to her truest self and wisest voice.
Imagine a woman who names her own gods.
A woman who imagines the divine in her image and likeness.
Who designs a personal spirituality to inform her daily life.
Imagine a woman in love with her own body.
A woman who believes her body is enough, just as it is.
Who celebrates her body's rhythms and cycles as an exquisite resource.
Imagine a woman who honors the body of the Goddess in her changing body.
A woman who celebrates the accumulation of her years and her wisdom.
Who refuses to use her life-energy disguising the changes in her body and life.
Imagine a woman who values the women in her life.
A woman who sits in circles of women.
Who is reminded of the truth about herself when she forgets.
Imagine yourself as this woman.
By Patricia Lynn Reilly
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